Change

This is a word that is most commonly experienced by every individual here. Be it our situations, people, places, thoughts, preferences anything. No doubt, changes are inevitable. But, it’s human nature to crib about each and every change we experience. Why is it so difficult to overcome such a phase of enormous change? And many times we already know that this stage will arrive one day, when we’ll have to move on from here too. Still we are unable to accept this change gracefully. We are tucked in the same comfort level. May be it’s our attachment that doesn’t allow us to accept. Take for example a change of place. We get so attached to that one place that every time we move, it hurts us. It’s my personal experience, when I was going to hostel after school I cried my ‘whole body out’ not only heart :P because I didn’t want to leave my home, my city. I just knew, I was best where I was and hated the change I had to face. After a few days in college hostel, I realized it was the best thing that could happen to me. And I still remember it took me months to overcome the change, when I had to come back from hostel to my home place. This is the simplest example of a change we experience in everyday life. It is human nature to get attached to a particular phase of life, which makes it difficult to move on. The only thing I have learned from my experiences is that changes are for our own evolvement. If we don’t change, we’ll never grow. There will be no spice left in our lives. Nothing new will be waiting for us. Can you now imagine a life without change? These changes make us believe that we have a challenge to face. And gives us the courage to stand up and show life that yes we can survive; no matter what comes next. Although, during these times life sometimes offers such conditions which often change us, as the person on the whole. These are the times when we are tested. Try and enhance yourself with the changing conditions, instead of destroying your true worth. These trying times shall also pass. Don’t worry. Remember everything that happens has a strong reason behind it. Every experience if good one will bring color to our lives, if bad will teach us something .With this thought in mind, have faith. And try to accept changes positively.